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Friday, August 15, 2008
A Woman's Secret .. and her Prayer
Hey friends,
This blog is from Vidya Joshi(she is not my vidya!), on rediff. It's a nice blog about love and faith. Just read on.
In trying to sort out their affairs, the little old man took down the shoe box and took it to his wife's bedside. She agreed that it was time that he should know what was in the box.
When he opened it, he found two crocheted dolls and a stack of
The little old man was so moved; he had to fight back tears. Only two precious dolls were in the box. She had only been angry with him two times in all those years of living and loving. He almost burst with happiness......
"Honey," he said, "that explains the dolls, but what about all of this money? Where did it come from?"
"Oh," she said, "that's the money I made from selling all the dolls..."
Women will love this...............
***A Prayer.*
Dear Lord, I pray for :
Wisdom to understand my man;
Love to forgive him;
And Patience for his moods;
because Lord, if I pray for Strength,
I'll beat him to death.
This blog is from Vidya Joshi(she is not my vidya!), on rediff. It's a nice blog about love and faith. Just read on.
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There was once a man and woman who had been married for more than 60
years.
They had shared everything. They had talked about everything. They had kept no secrets from each other except that the little old woman had a shoe box in the top of her closet that she had cautioned her husband never to
years.
They had shared everything. They had talked about everything. They had kept no secrets from each other except that the little old woman had a shoe box in the top of her closet that she had cautioned her husband never to
open or ask her about.
For all of these years, he had never thought about the box, but one day the little old woman got very sick and the doctor said she would not recover....
For all of these years, he had never thought about the box, but one day the little old woman got very sick and the doctor said she would not recover....
In trying to sort out their affairs, the little old man took down the shoe box and took it to his wife's bedside. She agreed that it was time that he should know what was in the box.
When he opened it, he found two crocheted dolls and a stack of
money totaling $25,000.
He asked her about the contents.
"When we were to be married," she said, "my grandmother told me the
secret of a happy marriage was to never argue. She told me that if I ever got angry with you, I should just keep quiet and crochet a doll."
He asked her about the contents.
"When we were to be married," she said, "my grandmother told me the
secret of a happy marriage was to never argue. She told me that if I ever got angry with you, I should just keep quiet and crochet a doll."
The little old man was so moved; he had to fight back tears. Only two precious dolls were in the box. She had only been angry with him two times in all those years of living and loving. He almost burst with happiness......
"Honey," he said, "that explains the dolls, but what about all of this money? Where did it come from?"
"Oh," she said, "that's the money I made from selling all the dolls..."
Women will love this...............
***A Prayer.*
Dear Lord, I pray for :
Wisdom to understand my man;
Love to forgive him;
And Patience for his moods;
because Lord, if I pray for Strength,
I'll beat him to death.
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
Buy-a-Kiss Party - Funniest one !!!
Hi,
This one was the funniest. Check it out. http://www.boloji.com/humor/0100.htm
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Pande Sir walked out of the bank, rich, his trouser pocket swelling out with concealing four bundles of notes of the Rs 100 denomination. He had counted all the notes carefully – Twenty thousand rupees! His mouth watered. What an evening it was going to be. Top secret on his mind but a evening that was going to keep his lips and mouth busy. He smiled to himself unable to hide his secret joy.
Pande Sir worked at the University. He had come to Delhi many years ago, from his small town, with the hope of finding a job. The eldest of five children, he had the responsibility of his aging parents, his three unwed sisters and his young brother on himself. Luckily, times were better then and he soon found a job at the University with the help of a good friend. He had since then “Haan ji – d and Ho ji-d” his way up the ladder. Seniors loved him. Pande Sir had no problems doing his office job during hours and running small errands for the professors in the evening. These acts were taking him places - all places except one. Pande ji had not reached his own marriage pandal yet. And being a good boy from a respectable family, he had not even ventured into the oft-visited Red Quarters of the city yet. In fact up until today, he had not even experienced the sheer joy of a woman’s lustrous lips.
His office colleague, Mr Nair, blamed him for it –
“ Pande Sir ”, he had said, “ kuch bhi kaho, what have you got by staying away from women your whole life? No bale bale, no chumma, de, de chumma”.
The opportunity had come all of a sudden. The most fantastic idea ever to hit upon. He heard of a party happening on the terrace of a residential colony, where one could pay and get a kiss. Pande Sir jumped at the idea. He was going to show Nair that waiting for results finally does pay off. It was going to rain kisses this evening.
The excitement was unbearable. In fact, he was going to be there early. In the bus he sat himself down at the “Ladies Seat” section and daydreamed. When the Conductor came to ask him for his ticket, he suddenly found all the women staring at him. They were laughing at the way he had pouted his lips as if he was on the verge of receiving a kiss! The lady next to him had in fact covered her lips with the edge of her sari to conceal her laughter. Or a threat!
As soon as the Stop came, Pande Sir, jumped out and walked up the narrow path to the house, on the terrace of which the party was to happen. Winding steps lead him to the Promised Land.
“ Is this where the Kissing Party is going to happen?” he asked the lady at the door.
“ Kissing Party? Why yes, this is the place. However, I am sure you know it is Buy-a-Kiss. ”
“ Ah”, said Pande Sir, “ I know, I know! I am all prepared. Look!” he said like a child displaying his toys, “ Here! Twenty thousand rupees! I am prepared.”
“Hope you win”, the girl said sweetly. “ However, you will have to win the Lucky Draw”.
“ Lucky Draw? What Lucky Draw are you talking about”.
“ Sweety” the lady said looking flirtatiously at Pande Sir, “ Did you not know, there is a Lucky Draw. You have to buy a ticket for Rs 1000. There will be a draw and five lucky winners will be announced. If you win, ” she continued with a wink, “ you will enter the final round. The Kiss will then be auctioned and will go off to the highest bidder! I wish you win!”
She smiled bewitchingly, winking again. Then she did something, Pande Sir was not quite used to. She swayed her body disturbing and came rather close to him, so much so that he could smell the sweet smell of wine in her breath. It sent a zing up in his head. He lost himself for a few moments in the titillating exposure of her cleavage. She was so close, he could feel her hand resting lightly on his behind. Pande Sir had never been so close to a woman before. He felt dizzy and light headed and began to wriggle and giggle uncontrollably……
Suddenly, she disengaged herself from him and turning, she left, leaving him gasping for breath. Pande Sir ran. He ran for his life. “ By God”, he thought, bacch gaya. She would have eaten…….”
He hailed the nearest taxi and as he was about to get in, he put his hand into his pocket. Piping hot air began to emit from his ears.
“ Where is my money? he gasped, “ Where is the money”.
Frantically, he looked into each and every pocket. His briefcase even. No, the money was gone! He thought of running up the stairs back to the terrace but stopped short. The Buy-a-Kiss party was over for him! And he had paid handsomely for it!
“ Saala Nair’’ he cursed “ I will make him pay for it. No bale bale, No chumma de, de chumma”! Huh!
This one was the funniest. Check it out. http://www.boloji.com/humor/0100.htm
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Pande Sir walked out of the bank, rich, his trouser pocket swelling out with concealing four bundles of notes of the Rs 100 denomination. He had counted all the notes carefully – Twenty thousand rupees! His mouth watered. What an evening it was going to be. Top secret on his mind but a evening that was going to keep his lips and mouth busy. He smiled to himself unable to hide his secret joy.
Pande Sir worked at the University. He had come to Delhi many years ago, from his small town, with the hope of finding a job. The eldest of five children, he had the responsibility of his aging parents, his three unwed sisters and his young brother on himself. Luckily, times were better then and he soon found a job at the University with the help of a good friend. He had since then “Haan ji – d and Ho ji-d” his way up the ladder. Seniors loved him. Pande Sir had no problems doing his office job during hours and running small errands for the professors in the evening. These acts were taking him places - all places except one. Pande ji had not reached his own marriage pandal yet. And being a good boy from a respectable family, he had not even ventured into the oft-visited Red Quarters of the city yet. In fact up until today, he had not even experienced the sheer joy of a woman’s lustrous lips.
His office colleague, Mr Nair, blamed him for it –
“ Pande Sir ”, he had said, “ kuch bhi kaho, what have you got by staying away from women your whole life? No bale bale, no chumma, de, de chumma”.
The opportunity had come all of a sudden. The most fantastic idea ever to hit upon. He heard of a party happening on the terrace of a residential colony, where one could pay and get a kiss. Pande Sir jumped at the idea. He was going to show Nair that waiting for results finally does pay off. It was going to rain kisses this evening.
The excitement was unbearable. In fact, he was going to be there early. In the bus he sat himself down at the “Ladies Seat” section and daydreamed. When the Conductor came to ask him for his ticket, he suddenly found all the women staring at him. They were laughing at the way he had pouted his lips as if he was on the verge of receiving a kiss! The lady next to him had in fact covered her lips with the edge of her sari to conceal her laughter. Or a threat!
As soon as the Stop came, Pande Sir, jumped out and walked up the narrow path to the house, on the terrace of which the party was to happen. Winding steps lead him to the Promised Land.
“ Is this where the Kissing Party is going to happen?” he asked the lady at the door.
“ Kissing Party? Why yes, this is the place. However, I am sure you know it is Buy-a-Kiss. ”
“ Ah”, said Pande Sir, “ I know, I know! I am all prepared. Look!” he said like a child displaying his toys, “ Here! Twenty thousand rupees! I am prepared.”
“Hope you win”, the girl said sweetly. “ However, you will have to win the Lucky Draw”.
“ Lucky Draw? What Lucky Draw are you talking about”.
“ Sweety” the lady said looking flirtatiously at Pande Sir, “ Did you not know, there is a Lucky Draw. You have to buy a ticket for Rs 1000. There will be a draw and five lucky winners will be announced. If you win, ” she continued with a wink, “ you will enter the final round. The Kiss will then be auctioned and will go off to the highest bidder! I wish you win!”
She smiled bewitchingly, winking again. Then she did something, Pande Sir was not quite used to. She swayed her body disturbing and came rather close to him, so much so that he could smell the sweet smell of wine in her breath. It sent a zing up in his head. He lost himself for a few moments in the titillating exposure of her cleavage. She was so close, he could feel her hand resting lightly on his behind. Pande Sir had never been so close to a woman before. He felt dizzy and light headed and began to wriggle and giggle uncontrollably……
Suddenly, she disengaged herself from him and turning, she left, leaving him gasping for breath. Pande Sir ran. He ran for his life. “ By God”, he thought, bacch gaya. She would have eaten…….”
He hailed the nearest taxi and as he was about to get in, he put his hand into his pocket. Piping hot air began to emit from his ears.
“ Where is my money? he gasped, “ Where is the money”.
Frantically, he looked into each and every pocket. His briefcase even. No, the money was gone! He thought of running up the stairs back to the terrace but stopped short. The Buy-a-Kiss party was over for him! And he had paid handsomely for it!
“ Saala Nair’’ he cursed “ I will make him pay for it. No bale bale, No chumma de, de chumma”! Huh!
Everything Happens for a Reason!!!!!!!
Hi Friends,
Some how today, I'm getting some weird subjects to read from the internet. Don't know why? but, still this one is really good one. Just read on . . . .
URL :http://www.boloji.com/spirituality/023.htm
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Some how today, I'm getting some weird subjects to read from the internet. Don't know why? but, still this one is really good one. Just read on . . . .
URL :http://www.boloji.com/spirituality/023.htm
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In Brooklyn, New York, Chush is a school that caters to learning disabled children. Some children remain in Chush for their entire school career, while other can be mainstreamed into conventional schools. At a Chush fund-raising dinner, the father of a Chush child delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended.
After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he cried out, "Where is the perfection in my son, Shay? Everything God does is done with perfection. But my child cannot understand things as other children do.
My child cannot remember facts and figures as other children do.
Where is God's perfection?"
The audience was shocked by the question, pained by the father's anguish and stilled by the piercing query. "I believe," the father answered, " that when God brings a child like this into the world, the perfection that he seeks is in the way people react to this child."
He then told the following story about his son Shay:
One afternoon, Shay and his father walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked, "Do you think they will let me play?" Shay's father knew that his son was not at all athletic and that most boys would not want him on their team. But Shay's father understood that if his son was chosen to play it would give him a comfortable sense of belonging. Shay's father approached one of the boys in the field and asked if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance from his teammates. Getting none, he took matters into his own hands and said, "We are losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him up to bat in the ninth inning."
Shay's father was ecstatic as Shay smiled broadly. Shay was told to put on a glove and go out to play short center field. In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by three. In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again and now with two outs and the basses loaded with the potential winning run on base Shay was scheduled to be up. Would the team actually let Shay bat at this juncture and give away their chance to win the game?
Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that it was all but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, let alone hit with it. However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher moved up a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay should at least be able to make contact.
The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. One of Shay's team-mates came up to Shay and together they held the bat and faced the pitcher waiting for the next pitch. The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly toward Shay. As the pitch came in, Shay and his teammate swung at the ball and together they hit a slow ground ball to the pitcher. The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could easily have thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have been out and that would have ended the game. Instead, the pitcher took the ball and threw it on a high arc to right field, far beyond reach of the first baseman.
Everyone started yelling, "Shay, run to first. Run to first."
Never in his life had Shay run to first. He scampered down the baseline wide-eyed and startled.
By the time he reached first base, the right fielder had the ball. He could have thrown the ball to the second baseman who would tag out Shay, who was still running. But the right fielder understood what the pitcher's intentions were, so he threw the ball high and far over the third baseman's head. Everyone yelled, "Run to second, run to second." Shay ran towards second base as the runners ahead of him deliriously circled the bases towards home. As Shay reached second base, the opposing short stop ran to him, turned him in the direction of third base and shouted, "Run to third." As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams ran behind him screaming, "Shay run home." Shay ran home, stepped on home plate and all 18 boys lifted him on their shoulders and made him the hero, as he had just hit a "grand slam" and won the game for his team.
"That day," said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, "those 18 boys reached their level of God's perfection."
Funny how this is so true! Funny how simple it is for people to trash different ways of living and believing and then wonder why the world is going to hell. Funny how people can send a thousand 'jokes' through email and they spread like wildfire, but when one starts sending messages regarding life choices, people think twice about sharing. Funny how the lewd, crude, vulgar and obscene pass freely through cyberspace, but public discussion of morality is too often suppressed in school and the workplace.
Funny, isn't it?
Monday, August 11, 2008
Again ! Something about infidelity!!!
Hi Friends,
Again, I don't know, why I'm reading more about infidelity now a days. Anyways, read one more blog about infidelity! Hah! Donno why I'm reading it... May be just for the sake of cognizance. It's a wonderful blog, I'll tell you. But, most of the things I experience, but, I can't correlate to what happens, as I think are not worth given attention.
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Again, I don't know, why I'm reading more about infidelity now a days. Anyways, read one more blog about infidelity! Hah! Donno why I'm reading it... May be just for the sake of cognizance. It's a wonderful blog, I'll tell you. But, most of the things I experience, but, I can't correlate to what happens, as I think are not worth given attention.
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If you have suspicions about your partner cheating on you then don’t just drive these thoughts away. It might be a good time to do a little investigation to be sure. Don’t tell your partner straight ahead that you’re doubtful about their actions and manners. Start your investigation by clearly following their tracks and then slowly and gradually making your way up to the final stage.
One way to tell if your partner is cheating on you is to catch them lying about a matter. You can follow eye movements to tell if they are lying. Ask more questions if you are not sure of their discomfort or uneasiness. If their answers are brief and clear, then they are telling the truth. If, however, they try to create stories out of nothing and don’t try to look at you while speaking then it’s time you started worrying about your relationship.
Partners who are cheating are often guilty of their actions. They try to apologize over small mistakes and go out of their way to make you happy or feel pampered. Keep an eye on this change of attitude or abnormal behavior. Some people also start showing that they have little interest in you or your activities and that they want to spend sometime alone. This kind of behavior is also alarming. Tell them you want to go with them even it’s a short trip to the mall.
When your partner is away frequently call them on their phone to see if it’s busy. You can track down credit card and phone bills to take into notice something unusual going on behind your back. Also check your partner’s closets and shirt pockets to look for scribbled-down phone numbers or meeting places. If you find an unknown number, call that number and see who picks up. If it’s not a familiar voice then ask questions to learn where they live and who they are. If your partner has got a cell phone then get your hands on it when they’re not looking and check the phonebook. Call a suspicious number and notice the tone of the other person when he/she picks up the phone.
Another way to catch a cheating partner is to follow them in a car. See where they go, what they buy and who they meet. If you can, try to show up suddenly somewhere and be surprised to see your partner there. Notice their reaction. If they are happy to see you then there’s nothing to worry about. If, however, they are perplexed, worried and wide-eyed, then they are surely hiding something. Ask them questions to clarify things up a bit. If nothing seems to work, go back and carry on with your investigation till you come up with something solid. Confront your partner only when you have enough evidence against them and then decide what should be done next.
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From time to time, its only natural to wonder if the person you are romantically involved with is having sex with someone else. The problem becomes compounded when you have dated someone in the past that has violated your trust. Indeed, “cheating” is perhaps one of the most devastating emotional traumas a person can endure.
So how do you know if your suspicions are true? The answer to this question is somewhat complex. What follows are five cues to possible infidelity. These are not intended to act as a complete list and the totality of your partner's behavior should be taken into consideration when examining these cues.
1. You indirectly find out from your partner that he or she is having sex with someone else. This can include:
- Smelling “sex” on a partner.
- Your partner suddenly asks to have sex with other people.
- Your partner suddenly does not want to have sex anymore
- Your partner calls you by the name of another person during an act of sex (not a former boyfriend or girlfriend.
2. Revelations of sexual infidelity.
- You witness or are directly told of your partner having sex with another.
- Your partner confesses to having an affair.
- Someone admits to you they have been having sex with your partner.
- Exaggerated displays of affection.
- Your partner suddenly starts to profess his or her “love” more than they used to.
- Your partner suddenly starts acting overly affectionate.
- Your partner starts talking about sex more often.
3. Exaggerated displays of affection.
- Your partner suddenly starts to profess his or her “love” more than they used to.
- Your partner suddenly starts acting overly affectionate.
- Your partner starts talking about sex more often.
4. Sexual disinterest or boredom.
- Your partner starts to act like he or she is “going through the motions” when having sex.
- Your partner suddenly seems less sexually aroused.
- Your partner begins to have shorter sex sessions, replacing what was once a long, passionate experience.
5. Emotional disengagement
- Your partner doesn't respond when you say, “I love you”.
- Your partner suddenly starts acting rude towards you and distancing himself or herself from your daily life.
- Your partner starts looking for reasons to start an argument with you and then says, “We just don't get along – we should think about this relationship”.
- Your partner changes the subject when a certain person's name comes up and acts anxious.
- Your partner refuses to make eye contact with you, where once this was not an issue.
To be sure, nobody wants to be emotionally violated. This is because feelings and emotions are fragile things and it hurts when the person we love causes pain. If you suspect that your partner is cheating, then it might be time to confront him or her and ask for answers. Before doing so, be sure to have a sound basis for making accusations – a charge of infidelity is extremely serious. That said, sometimes that little voice deep inside is right.
Infidelity!! - death to me
Hi Friends,
I'm an intrepid and unarguable reader, a demagogue :) I came across this piece of information in one of the websites. It's about, a partner cheating his/her partner. Oh! I've taken such a serious thing to share!!! But, I feel most of it written is true.
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Choosing to be faithful is a decision. You may not always feel like it. It takes a lot of self-control in not being punitive, sensitivity to the feelings of others, empathy, good impulse control, and the willingness and skills to effectively ask, and even demand that your intimate partner fulfill your needs.
Good communication, negotiation, problem solving and conflict resolution skills are important in this process, as well as a lot of patience, which is needed in order to hang in there. It is definitely not easy. It is easier for many people find someone else.
Infidelity may start as an accident, a curiosity, or as a punishment. There is an addictive quality to it, which makes it progressively harder to stop.
Once it is discovered, infidelity hits with tremendous force. It decimates your partner's self esteem, ruptures trust, threatens the kids, destabilizes the relationship and throws the future into question. It is like a death(Infact, it means death!!!! atleast for a person like me. I've never cheated any one in my life!!!). It is the death of the relationship's innocence, for it will be a long time before the two of you trust each other again.
Once it is admitted or discovered, infidelity generates tremendously powerful emotions in the betrayed partner. Emotions will likely include anger, rage, the desire for revenge, and sometimes homicidal and suicidal feelings. Nothing seems to wound more than being jilted for someone else.
The betrayed person frequently obsesses about what happened, unable to get haunting images and thoughts out of their head. They are likely to question their attractiveness and desirability. Their feeling of betrayal may be so strong that it never goes away. They are likely to feel bitterly resentful, and may plunge into deep
depression. Ultimately, they meet the final destination, without any one even putting any effort; i.e. Death!!
The betrayed partner my go so far as to have a revenge affair, in essence declaring that what's good for the goose is good for the gander. There is seldom joy in a revenge affair, for it is not about sex or fun. It is about wounded pride, and wanting to hit their partner where it hurts.
I'm an intrepid and unarguable reader, a demagogue :) I came across this piece of information in one of the websites. It's about, a partner cheating his/her partner. Oh! I've taken such a serious thing to share!!! But, I feel most of it written is true.
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Choosing to be faithful is a decision. You may not always feel like it. It takes a lot of self-control in not being punitive, sensitivity to the feelings of others, empathy, good impulse control, and the willingness and skills to effectively ask, and even demand that your intimate partner fulfill your needs.
Good communication, negotiation, problem solving and conflict resolution skills are important in this process, as well as a lot of patience, which is needed in order to hang in there. It is definitely not easy. It is easier for many people find someone else.
Infidelity may start as an accident, a curiosity, or as a punishment. There is an addictive quality to it, which makes it progressively harder to stop.
Once it is discovered, infidelity hits with tremendous force. It decimates your partner's self esteem, ruptures trust, threatens the kids, destabilizes the relationship and throws the future into question. It is like a death(Infact, it means death!!!! atleast for a person like me. I've never cheated any one in my life!!!). It is the death of the relationship's innocence, for it will be a long time before the two of you trust each other again.
Once it is admitted or discovered, infidelity generates tremendously powerful emotions in the betrayed partner. Emotions will likely include anger, rage, the desire for revenge, and sometimes homicidal and suicidal feelings. Nothing seems to wound more than being jilted for someone else.
The betrayed person frequently obsesses about what happened, unable to get haunting images and thoughts out of their head. They are likely to question their attractiveness and desirability. Their feeling of betrayal may be so strong that it never goes away. They are likely to feel bitterly resentful, and may plunge into deep
depression. Ultimately, they meet the final destination, without any one even putting any effort; i.e. Death!!
The betrayed partner my go so far as to have a revenge affair, in essence declaring that what's good for the goose is good for the gander. There is seldom joy in a revenge affair, for it is not about sex or fun. It is about wounded pride, and wanting to hit their partner where it hurts.
Truth About Love !!!!
Once upon a time, there was an island where all the feelings lived: Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others, including Love. One day it was announced to the feelings that the island would sink, so all constructed boats and left. Except for Love.
Love was the only one who stayed. Love wanted to hold out until the last possible moment.
When the island had almost sunk, Love decided to ask for help.
Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said,
"Richness, can you take me with you?"
Richness answered, "No, I can't. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat. There is no place here for you."
Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel. "Vanity, please help me!"
"I can't help you, Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat," Vanity answered.
Sadness was close by so Love asked, "Sadness, let me go with you."
"Oh . . . Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!"
Happiness passed by Love, too, but she was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her.
Suddenly, there was a voice, "Come, Love, I will take you." It was an elder. So blessed and overjoyed, Love even forgot to ask the elder where they were going. When they arrived at dry land, the elder went her own way. Realizing how much was owed the elder,
Love asked Knowledge, another elder, "Who Helped me?"
"It was Time," Knowledge answered.
"Time?" asked Love. "But why did Time help me?"
Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and answered, "Because only Time is capable of understanding how valuable Love is."
(Obtained from an unknown source)
Love was the only one who stayed. Love wanted to hold out until the last possible moment.
When the island had almost sunk, Love decided to ask for help.
Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said,
"Richness, can you take me with you?"
Richness answered, "No, I can't. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat. There is no place here for you."
Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel. "Vanity, please help me!"
"I can't help you, Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat," Vanity answered.
Sadness was close by so Love asked, "Sadness, let me go with you."
"Oh . . . Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!"
Happiness passed by Love, too, but she was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her.
Suddenly, there was a voice, "Come, Love, I will take you." It was an elder. So blessed and overjoyed, Love even forgot to ask the elder where they were going. When they arrived at dry land, the elder went her own way. Realizing how much was owed the elder,
Love asked Knowledge, another elder, "Who Helped me?"
"It was Time," Knowledge answered.
"Time?" asked Love. "But why did Time help me?"
Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and answered, "Because only Time is capable of understanding how valuable Love is."
(Obtained from an unknown source)
Why loved ones stray — and why we stick with the people who hurt us most ????????
Hi friends,
Here I found one very interesting blog, though unfortunately true. Check it out, it's from MSN news network.
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Here I found one very interesting blog, though unfortunately true. Check it out, it's from MSN news network.
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Readers bare their thoughts on cheating
Why loved ones stray — and why we stick with the people who hurt us most
MSNBC
updated 2:27 p.m. ET April 18, 2007
"Variety is the zest of life," writes Jake of East Hartford, Conn.
A good number of people seem to share that viewpoint. found that about 22 percent of respondents have cheated on their partners. When we asked readers to share their stories and views about infidelity, we received numerous tales of betrayal and its aftermath, as well as various reasons for cheating.
Whether it was a desire to fulfill emotional needs or sample an assortment of partners, which our survey suggested were two popular reasons, people have no shortage of justifications for their cheating ways.
"I have strayed in most of my relationships, sometimes because my partners were the ones cheating and I would find out and get even. Other times, my partners were cheating, but would accuse me of cheating to cover their own infidelities, so I figured if I was going to constantly be accused, why not go ahead and do it?" explains A. Aguero from Fort Worth, Texas.
Read on for more readers' tales and opinions on straying and staying true:
"Monogamy definitely has its place, but I just can't seem to locate that place. I am in love with the hunt. After I catch her, the fire dies and I become bored with her."
— Kevin, Brooklyn, N.Y.
I found out almost a year ago now that my husband was cheating. I found his cell phone bill with pages of text messages and phone calls to this one particular number. Sure enough, when I called it, the woman told me she was in a relationship with him. We have two young children and our sex life was GREAT. I didn't ever think he even had the energy for anyone else. The problem is now, with all the evidence, he STILL won't admit that he was ever with her. ... I still love him (always will), but now I am on antidepressants to help me cope with all the mess he's put me through.
— Anonymous
I've been cheating on my boyfriend for three months. He won't have sex with me or hang out with me, and so I found someone who wants me every night. I haven't left my boyfriend yet because of our baby, but I eventually will. ... I don't regret anything!
— Judy, Honolulu
My partner has cheated on me for years yet I stick with him. He says it all about variety. We've been together 20 years and he says it has nothing to do with OUR relationship, OUR sex life or MY physical attributes. It really hurts but I justify staying because everything else in our relationship is amazing. I really feel he is my soul mate in every other part of our lives. ... I believe you're either inclined to cheat or your not — I'm not, he is.
— John, Michigan
I think people can find reasons to cheat whenever they want. However, there is no excuse for cheating. I am in the Air Force, and in my first marriage my wife cheated on me while I was deployed. I am now remarried to the love of my life and last week I was devastated when she told me she is having an affair with another man and she had no regrets. This is occurring while we speak and I am deployed again to Iraq.
— Michael
I think women are all too often categorized as cheating because of emotional needs. My husband is phenomenal in every way. He is loving, caring, patient and wonderfully wicked in bed. I cheat, not because he lacks anything, but because I travel a lot and enjoy sex way too much to go for long dry spells when I'm away from home. ... He doesn't know and we are very happy.
— Anonymous
Nothing is worth destroying your marriage and family over. You're not just cheating on your spouse, but if you have young children, you're cheating on them, too. Being unfaithful is one of the most selfish things you can do.
— Shannon, Pittsburgh
Due to an ever decreasing sex life with my wife, I plan on cheating the first chance I get. I won't regret it, because she will have deserved me straying because she won't take care of my needs. I've expressed that I need more from her, but apparently she's not capable or unwilling to give more. Believe it or not, it's actually the emotional connection I crave as much as the physical connection.
— John, Ventura, Calif.
Cheating is an unfortunate side effect of a relationship clearly over. While I understand those who cheat claiming they were either "bored" or "frustrated" in their relationships, I can't help but think many couples resort to that option all too quickly.
— Anonymous
Before I got involved in an extra-marital relationship, I thought it was a taboo thing. Then I realized it helped spice up my marriage and I'm more pleasant to be around in the house. But nevertheless, I did feel guilty about my action toward my primary partner. He is a hard-working man, great father and husband ... I don't have any desire to leave him.
— Tifa, Minnesota
I think the problem with most relationships is that people don't wait to find the right person. You should be compatible in the present and with future goals. I don't try to change my husband, and I would never cheat — even if I were tempted. It's not worth it and I wouldn't disrespect him.
— Jennie, Austin, Texas
I was cheated on by my girlfriend after about a year into the relationship. Needless to say, I was heartbroken. I forgave her, but the feelings of distrust never went away. I ended up breaking up with her after she cheated on me again. I believe that I would have ended it anyway, because I just couldn't get over the first instance, as much as I tried. I will do my best to never cheat on any future partners, because I have been on the receiving end, and I would not wish those feelings of depression and sadness on anyone.
— Anonymous
Obviously we live in a country of lust and a good chunk of its people lack morals. If you're willing to cheat on somebody you supposedly "love," then you don't love them. And people wonder why the U.S. has one of the highest divorce rates in the world — a whole bunch of people are cheaters. Marriage doesn't mean what it once meant to people — a promise to the end. Now it appears the end is whenever the most convenient time for a person to get his/her needs met.
— Anonymous
I took a vow in front of God and our families and friends. I love my husband and respect him and our marriage. We are more in love with each other now. We have been married over 25 years. Why on earth would I do something to ruin all that is good in my life?
— Susan, Knoxville, Tenn.
I cheated on my husband with a neighbor and ended up falling in love with him ... it wasn't worth all of the emotional stress and turmoil. I wanted to leave my husband to be with him, but he didn't want to be with me.
— KS, Portland, Ore.
Friday, May 30, 2008
ಇಟ್ಸ್ ಆಲ್ ಅಬೌಟ್ ayurveda
ಹಲೋ ಫ್ರೆಂಡ್ಸ್,ಈ ಕೆಳಕಂಡ ದಿಕ್ಸೂಚಿಯಲ್ಲಿ ಆಯುರ್ವೇದದ ಬಗ್ಗೆ ಕಲೆಯಿರಿ..
http://www.boloji.com/ayurveda/index.htm
http://www.boloji.com/ayurveda/index.htm
Saturday, May 10, 2008
About ASD - Accredited Symbian Developer Certification
Hi folks. Yesterday, I had a chance to undergo a crucial ASD (Accredited Symbian Developer ) certification exams. I was bed ridden for the past 20 days. So, my preparations were not up to the mark. I think I've not done it to my expectations. Let me tell you the pattern.
1. The duration of ASD exam is 120 minutes and 48 tough questions were thrown.
2. Mostly, they revolved around Client Server, Platform Security and Plugin architecture {The catch is this is not explicitly mentioned as a subject in the curricullum}.
3. 30% of the questions were programs and asking me to predict the output of the program.
It took a hell out of me!!!!!!! It was really tough. Mind you !
Folks, I suggest you better take up Symbian Essentials and Symbian Application Engine Development courses from Symbian and then attend it. Even though I've a bit of experiance in Symbain, it appeared to be a heck of a task for me. We normally, don't work in those areas like publish and subscribe services etc.
Read C++ Stroustrup twice before taking up the exam.
1. The duration of ASD exam is 120 minutes and 48 tough questions were thrown.
2. Mostly, they revolved around Client Server, Platform Security and Plugin architecture {The catch is this is not explicitly mentioned as a subject in the curricullum}.
3. 30% of the questions were programs and asking me to predict the output of the program.
It took a hell out of me!!!!!!! It was really tough. Mind you !
Folks, I suggest you better take up Symbian Essentials and Symbian Application Engine Development courses from Symbian and then attend it. Even though I've a bit of experiance in Symbain, it appeared to be a heck of a task for me. We normally, don't work in those areas like publish and subscribe services etc.
Read C++ Stroustrup twice before taking up the exam.
Tuesday, May 06, 2008
What is America (USA) Up to ?
Amazed by my blog title ? Yeah I too was amazed when I saw this snippet in my morning news paper : http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/articleshow/3006775.cms . Why is Mr. Bush doing such a no sense statement ? Is it because, USA is in trouble due to his unrealistic foreign invasions? or is it because, they have a fear that india and china will soon overtake America (USA) as the worlds super powers ?
Even for Raising petrol prices also, both the countries are blamed. Even the world knows who is controlling the worlds fuel price surge (offcourse! it's USA). I think anything in excess is poisonous. I think one should remember this. What the world is doing ?
Every one knows, he invaded Iraq to have complete control over the oil reserves there. Even though, the reason Mr. Bush qouted, for these invasions, as something else. He accused North Korea and Iran for carrying out neuclear operations, because, they are affraid of the threat it has to the whole world. But, do you think USA doesn't have any sort of nuclear weapon ? Have they destroyed it ? They have to ask this questions to themselves before they point fingures on others. They were the only country to use Nuclear weapons to destroy their enimies..! Now, they are stopping others from using it. Why ? Atleast india is a peace loving country and has never fought against any one for that cause.
Even for Raising petrol prices also, both the countries are blamed. Even the world knows who is controlling the worlds fuel price surge (offcourse! it's USA). I think anything in excess is poisonous. I think one should remember this. What the world is doing ?
Every one knows, he invaded Iraq to have complete control over the oil reserves there. Even though, the reason Mr. Bush qouted, for these invasions, as something else. He accused North Korea and Iran for carrying out neuclear operations, because, they are affraid of the threat it has to the whole world. But, do you think USA doesn't have any sort of nuclear weapon ? Have they destroyed it ? They have to ask this questions to themselves before they point fingures on others. They were the only country to use Nuclear weapons to destroy their enimies..! Now, they are stopping others from using it. Why ? Atleast india is a peace loving country and has never fought against any one for that cause.
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